Ten Topics You Should Never Put in an Email
By Dianna Booher, CSP
Ask any ten people if they know of someone who has been terminated or
an organization that has been hauled into court over an email, and at least
one can cite person and case. The story usually has an unhappy ending.
Here are the No-Nos:
1) Negative comments about upper management (Even if "deleted," these emails
can be retrieved. Often such remarks accidentally get passed on. After four replies
on an ongoing saga, someone forgets your sarcastic line buried at the bottom and
forwards the email to another colleague to answer a different question.)
2) Criticism regarding peer or staff performance issues (Written comments cause
employees to brood. They seem more official than spoken words.)
3) Bonuses or salary issues (If positive plans fail to materialize, the writing seems like
"proof" that they are deserved.)
4) Racial or gender slurs (Surely not in this decade)
5) Product or service liabilities (Opponents can subpoena your emails as evidence
that you were aware of problems and ignored warnings.)
6) Competitor untruths (See you in court.)
7) Gossip about colleagues (Even the most innocent "news" can strike people the
wrong way If they want it told, they'll tell it.)
8) Sloppy writing (Clear writing reflects clear thinking. The opposite is also true. Your
image may depend on daily informal email more than on formal documents.)
9) Humor - particularly sarcasm and tongue-in-cheek (What comes across well
with proper inflection, a smile, a goofy expression, and a slap on the back frequently
falls flat on the screen.)
10) Anything about your personal life you'd be embarrassed to have printed on
the front page of your newspaper (Your love life, your weekend adventures, your
political views. Nada. Enough said.)
So what's left? Work. Ho-hum. And I think that's the general idea.
© Dianna Booher, Booher Consultants, Inc.
Author of 42 books (Simon & Schuster/Pocket, Warner, and McGraw-Hill), Dianna
Booher, CSP, CPAE, delivers keynotes and training on communication and life-balance
issues. Her latest books: Speak with Confidence, Your Signature Life, Your Signature
Work, E-Writing, Communicate with Confidence, and From Contact to Contract.. For
more information on Dianna and her programs, visit www.booher.com or call 800-342-
6621.
© Dianna Booher, Booher Consultants, Inc.
Author of 42 books (Simon & Schuster/Pocket, Warner, and McGraw-Hill), Dianna Booher, CSP, CPAE, delivers programs on communication and life-balance issues. Her latest books: Speak with Confidence, Your Signature Life, Your Signature Work, E-Writing, and Communicate with Confidence. For more information, visit www.booher.com or call 800-342-6621.
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